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Basic Information About Divorce in California

If you are considering divorce, you may be wondering about residency requirements, grounds for divorce, and what the main steps are in the divorce process. This article will provide an overview of the basics divorce process to help you think about how you are going to handle your divorce case. There are three main ways to end a marriage or registered domestic partnership in California: divorce, legal separation, and annulment. After you decide how you want to end your marriage or domestic partnership, you need to plan your case ahead of time. Planning before you start and talking to a lawyer can save you time and money as you go through the court process. At the Law Office of David Knecht, at 707-451-4502, we can help you plan your divorce from the beginning, or we can assist in a divorce that has already been initiated. We are experienced divorce lawyers here to help you succeed.

What are the residency requirements for divorce in California?

You or your spouse must have been a resident in the state of California for at least six months and a resident in the county where the divorce is going to be filed for at least three months prior to filing for divorce, unless the case involves same-sex marriages.
With same-sex marriage, a judgment for divorce, nullity, or legal separation is possible even if neither person is a resident of California at the time the proceedings if 1) the marriage was entered in California and 2) neither spouse lives in a state that will dissolve the marriage (in a state that doesn’t recognize the marriage).
See California Family Code 2320 at this link:
- :https://leginfo.legislature.ca.gov/faces/codes_displaySection.xhtml?sectionNum=2320.&lawCode=FAM

What are the grounds for divorce or legal separation in California?

Most common: Irreconcilable differences
- It is not necessary for both spouses or domestic partners to agree to end the marriage. Either spouse or partner can decide to end the marriage. The other person can’t stop a divorce. California is a “no fault” divorce state, which means that the person who wants the divorce does not have to prove that the other person did anything wrong. They just have to state that there were “irreconcilable differences,” which means that they do not get along.
Also grounds for divorce: Permanent legal incapacity to make decisions.
See California Family Code 2310 at this link.
- https://leginfo.legislature.ca.gov/faces/codes_displaySection.xhtml?lawCode=FAM&sectionNum=2310.

What are the basic steps in a California divorce?

You meet the residency requirements.

You state the grounds for divorce.

Divorce paperwork needs to be filed and served to your spouse.

Your spouse will have an opportunity to tell their side of the story, if they contest the information in your paperwork. This can happen through written paperwork and proceedings either live proceedings or virtual.

If your spouse does not respond within a certain time frame, the divorce can proceed as uncontested.

Issues involving property, children and financial support will be resolved either through settlement or court hearings.

Consult with the Law Office of David Knecht

At the Law Office of David Knecht, at 707-451-4502, we have extensive experience in divorce in California. We can explain the divorce process to you and advocate for the property division, financial support and custody arrangements that would work best for you.

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5 Secrets for Coping with Divorce Stress and Depression

If you are struggling coping with divorce stress or depression, you are not alone. In fact, a study cited in the Journal of Family Therapy reports that despite the increased frequency of divorce in our society, a divorce event can result in emotional and economic hardship for many and a greatly increased depressive effect. https://www.jstor.org/stable/352399

This article will suggest a few strategies to help you be successful in managing the changing life circumstances associated with divorce and help you maintain a positive mental and emotional outlook:

Take each day at a time.

During the divorce process, you can experience a sense of uncertainty or fear about the unknown. You may no be sure what things or going to change or whether you will like your “new normal.” One strategy for managing these concerns is to focus on the short-term rather than the long term: making lists, setting daily goals, and keeping your focus on being successful each day will help you stay positive during this transition.

Confide in a friend.

An interesting 2012 study found that friendships with individuals and couples tend to shift during divorce. See https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/10502556.2012.682894.

This study found that friendships with couples tended to distance during divorce and friendships with individuals often strengthened. The implications of this for you may be that you could benefit from strengthening bonds with friends who will be sympathetic and loyal to you. You will need someone you trust to vent to and confide in, and a friend who can provide supportive and positive feedback will help keep you mentally strong.

Let go of the past, release yourself from guilt.

At the end of a relationship, many are drawn in to examining the beginning of the marriage, considering what “red flags” they may have ignored or what went wrong in the process that led up to the marriage. While self-reflection can be healing at the right time and the right circumstances, some may caught in a downward spiral of “would have’s” and “should have’s” about a past that cannot be changed. A helpful technique can be to let go of the past, release yourself from the guilt, and focus on the future rather than dwell on mistakes of the past.

Take time for self-care.

For some, self-care is keeping the routine at the gym, for others it’s the solace of comfort food and a good movie. Regardless of where or how you find solace, it’s important to make time to focus on yourself. Some people become so concerned about their children or others who might be impacted by the divorce that they neglect to put time and effort into making themselves happy.

Find the right lawyer for you.

An experienced and compassionate attorney will help make the divorce process easier for you. Find an attorney who fits your needs. As a client, you are in the driver’s seat on who to hire and how to guide them to effectively communicate and work for you, so do not be afraid to find a person who fits your needs and to help them know the best way to work for your good.

Consult with the Law Office of David Knecht

At the Law Office of David Knecht, at 707-451-4502, we have extensive experience in divorce in California. We can help ease the burden of stress or depression from you by guiding you through the legal process and supporting your goals.

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Can I get Spousal Support (Alimony) in California?

One of the top concerns many have when contemplating a divorce is assets and money, so spousal support is often a very important issue in many California divorces. This article will explain some of the basic principles relating to spousal support with information taken, in part, from https://www.courts.ca.gov/1038.htm?rdeLocaleAttr=en and https://codes.findlaw.com/ca/family-code/fam-sect-4320.html

For questions about your specific situation, contact the Law Office of David Knecht, (707) 451-4502.

What is spousal support?

Spousal support, which is also known as alimony, is the payment from one spouse to the other. It can be temporary or permanent. These terms refer to when the support is ordered, not how long it lasts. Temporary support is ordered while the divorce is pending. Permanent spousal support is after the divorce judgment. In California, either spouse may request spousal support.

What is the purpose of spousal support?

Some people mistakenly believe that the purpose of spousal support is to punish the person who has to pay, but such is not the case in the no-fault state of California.

The purpose of temporary support is to maintain the living standards of both parties until the divorce is final the assets and debts have been determined.

Permanent support is not intended to be forever. In California, the policy is that both parties become self-supporting within a reasonable amount of time and spousal support bridges the gap until the supported spouse can get the employment or resources to meet their needs.

What is the presumption for marriages that lasted less than 10 years?

For marriages that lasted less than ten years, the duration of support will generally have a time limit. The presumption is that spousal support/alimony will last for half the length of the marriage. For example, if the marriage was ten years, the spousal support would generally end by five years.

What about long-term marriages?

For long-term marriages, those of more than ten-year duration, the presumption is that the court maintains jurisdiction over spousal support indefinitely.

What factors can be considered by the judge for spousal support?

The judge can consider the totality of the circumstances which may include, but are not limited to the standard of living you had when married, marketable skills, the market for those skills, how much your earning capacity was limited during the marriage, the length of the marriage, childcare, age, health, hardships, etc. This list could include anything that a judge determines is fair and just.

Consult with the Law Office of David Knecht

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5 Ways to Save Money on Your California Divorce

Many people considering divorce are fearful of the cost and how the expense of a divorce may negatively impact their future long-term. This article will help provide suggestions on how to save money on a California divorce.

Prepare and Organize Your Information. If you prepare and organize your information in advance of meeting with your attorney, your meeting with him or her will be more effective. You can make a list of all your assets and liabilities. You can do research online to assess the value of your home, vehicles, and other assets. When you organize this information into a concise summary, you will be better prepared to have an efficient discussion.
Give Consideration to Your Priorities, Questions and Concerns. Many issues in divorce require careful thought and consideration so that you can establish your ideal outcome. For example, what would be the best custody arrangement for your schedule? Where would you like to live now and in the future? What assets are important to you to keep and what do you not mind selling? Your attorney will certainly be invested in helping you achieve your ideal outcome, but in order to do that he or she will need to work with you to find out what that target is.
Choose a Support Person. Decide a support person who can be there for you when you need impartial advice, a shoulder to cry on, or just a listening ear. This support person will be essential in helping you process the many emotions involved in a divorce. This will save you money by helping you set reasonable goals, make good decisions, and keep the time you are paying your attorney focused.
Communicate in Writing When Possible. One way to save cost in any legal case is to communicate in writing, when it makes sense. If you need to send your attorney a quick thought or note, an email or text can be quicker and cheaper than a phone call.
Choose Your Attorney Carefully. One of the most important ways to save money in a divorce is to hire an attorney who is experienced in family law. Some people are tempted to hire a friend or family member who is a lawyer with the idea that they may get a better deal going with someone they know. Unfortunately, when you hire someone who does not have experience, you may be spending more money because they may have to come up to speed on family law issues on your dime.

Consult with the Law Office of David Knecht

If you want a lawyer who is effective, efficient and experienced, while still being cognizant of cost, please contact the attorneys at the Law Office of David Knecht, at 707-451-4502.

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Can I “Kick Out” My Husband or Wife from the Home?

Unfortunately, some relationships involve violence or threatened violence, the question arises whether the victim can legally get the offending spouse “kicked out” of the home. The answer is yes, under certain circumstances. This article will discuss the process in more detail.

Authority for the Court to Remove a Spouse from the Home. The Domestic Violence Prevention Act (DVPA) and Family Code § 6340, 6321, and 6324 authorize a court to order the restrained party to move out of property and allow the protected party to use and possess the property under specific circumstances. To read these code sections, click the following links:

What Facts Need to Be Presented in Hearing. There are three facts that need to be presented at a hearing:
That the person staying has a reason to be in the home, specifically, “Facts sufficient for the court to ascertain that the party who will stay in the dwelling has a right under color of law to possession of the premises.”
That assault or threat of assault is involved, specifically, “That the party to be excluded has assaulted or threatens to assault the other party or any other person under the care, custody and control of the other party, or any minor child of the parties or of the other party.”
Harm, specifically, “That the physical or emotional harm would otherwise result to the other party, to any person under the care, custody and control of the other party, or to any minor child of the parties or of the other party.”

Does the person staying have to be the owner of the home? Not necessarily. This question was presented in a case from the Court of Appeals in California, Nicole G. v. Braithwaite, which can be found here: https://scholar.google.com/scholar_case?case=17446401920668045282&q=braithwaite&hl=en&as_sdt=4,5

In this case, the Court ordered Braithwaite to move out of the property and granted Nicole’s domestic violence restraining order against Braithwaite. In that case, the title to the home was still a civil case and a disputed issue between the parties, but the Court was able to exercise the power to order Braithwaite out and allow Nicole to take possession of the home temporarily to protect her.

Consult with the Law Office of David Knecht

If you have questions about removing a spouse from a home or any questions relating to divorce or family law, please contact the attorneys at the Law Office of David Knecht, at 707-451-4502. We have extensive experience in family law and can be a knowledgeable advocate for you.

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Can I Force My Ex to Sell the House in California?

The question of whether you can force your spouse to sell the home in a divorce seems like a simple one, but the answer can sometimes involve complex analysis. It is an issue that often arises because the home is one of the largest investments many married couples make.

This article will provide some helpful background information to assist you in understanding potential issues, but we recommend seeking legal guidance on your specific situation, given the complexity of the issues and the significant value the home for many families.

California Family Code §2550. California Family Code §2550 governs the division of property in a California Divorce. The full text can be found here: https://leginfo.legislature.ca.gov/faces/codes_displaySection.xhtml?lawCode=FAM&sectionNum=2550.
How does this law apply in practice? This law provides that family court judges must divide the community estate equally, but this doesn’t speak to one specific asset, such as the house. It refers to the whole of the community property estate, which will include other assets, such as money in the bank, vehicles, etc., and also debts, such as credit card debt, student loans, etc.
What is the bottom line? When Section 2550 applies the home, the bottom line is that one party may be awarded the home, but only when there is equality in the totality of the division of assets such that the other party’s right to reimbursement or an equalization payment is honored. It is also true that a judge can order the sale of the home as per the authority provided by this law.
- What is partition and how is it used in a divorce to force the sale of the home
Where is the law governing partition? You can find California Code, Code of Civil Procedure §872.210 here: https://codes.findlaw.com/ca/code-of-civil-procedure/ccp-sect-872-210.html
Can Partition be Used in Divorce? No, unless there are special circumstances involved, a partition action is specifically excluded for divorce proceedings: “an action between spouses or putative spouses for partition of their community or quasi-community property or their quasi-marital interest in property may not be commenced or maintained under this title.”

Consult with the Law Office of David Knecht

If you have questions about how your home will be divided in a divorce or any other family law question, please contact the attorneys at the Law Office of David Knecht, at 707-451-4502. We have extensive experience in family law and can be a knowledgeable advocate for you.

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Resources to Help in Divorce in California

Many parents are looking for online resources to help themselves or their children cope with the changes in the family that happen with divorce. The California Courts in collaboration with other have created a website with information to help parents, kids and teens deal with divorce. This article will summarize some of the helpful sections, and the full site can be found here: www.familieschange.ca.gov

Dealing with Change.

If you are looking for information about parenting responsibilities, children’s rights and responsibilities, what changes to expect, parenting strategies, keeping the kids out of the conflict or even abuse in the home, this section will provide helpful resources. Go to www.familieschange.cal. gov/en/parents/dealing-change

Feelings and Emotions.

This section provides resources to help your children process the gamut of feelings and emotions during and after divorce or separation. It describes how your children may feel, gives suggestions on how to create an environment that allows children to experience and express emotions, gives guidance on identifying feelings, and suggestions for problem solving and dealing with behavioral changes in children. Go to www.familieschange.ca.gov/en/parents/feelings-and-emotions

Telling the Children

One of most difficult aspects of divorce or separation can be telling the children about the impending changes. This is a crucial step that will influence how your children will feel about the situation. The site recommends planning out the discussion with your ex-spouse so that if possible, you can agree on how to deliver the news, anticipate questions, address concerns, and make the discussion as calm and positive as possible. This section has detailed information on questions such as how to explain why parents separate, how to keep lines of communication open and how to talk to teachers, coaches and extended family. Go to www.familieschange.ca.gov/en/parents/telling-children

Child Support

Child Support is one of the first things parents should think about when they separate. It is the amount of money that a court orders a parent or both parents to pay each month to help pay for the support of the child (or children) and their living expenses. California’s child support law is based on the principle that even though parents may separate or divorce, children are entitled to the financial support of both parents. This section has information on child support responsibilities, guidance on how to figure out what a parent should expect to pay or receive, information on how to calculate other types of expenses and also additional resources.

Go to www.familieschange.ca.gov/en/parents/child-support

Other Resources

There are many resources available to help California families through separation and divorce. Some of these are listed on the Families Change site at www.familieschange.ca.gov/en/parents/resources.

Talk to an Attorney

If you want to talk to a knowledgeable and professional attorney about your questions relating to separation, divorce, child support, or any other family law issue, the attorneys at the Law Office of David Knecht, have extensive experience in family law. Contact us at 707-451-4502 for more information.

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3 Things to Do When You Think You Wife is Cheating

Anger, hurt, grief, all of these feelings come to full light when you find out your spouse is cheating. If you have suspicions, it is a good idea to find out if your wife is cheating as it can assist you in the divorce process if you do end up taking this road. Sometimes it can be challenging to know if your spouse is cheating. There are some signs to watch for such as changes in social habits, their behavior at home, and changes in their appearance.

Stay Calm and Gather Information About Your Spouse

If you have confirmed that your spouse is cheating, you need to remain calm. Collect information about your partner to help you in the decision-making process from this point. Was this affair a one-time thing, or is this on-going? If it seems the marriage is destined to fail, you’ll need as much information as you can when you move into the legal proceedings.

Step Away and Surround Yourself with Support

Staying with the person who has hurt you deeply can make it almost impossible to make decisions, and to start the healing process. Take a step back from the relationship and find people to help support you. Surrounding yourself with good company will allow you to start to process these feelings you are dealing with and can help you walk through several scenarios to start this new chapter in your life.

Carefully Consider Your Future

Once you know if divorce is right for you, it is time to call a divorce attorney. The attorney can help you with multiple elements in separation of you and your soon to be ex. Here are some things you need to carefully consider:

Children – who will be the primary caregiver? How can you protect your children as much as possible including their education costs, housing needs, and custody?
Assets – how do you plan on dividing the assets?
Alimony and child support – there will be new costs to deal with, are you planning to ask for alimony or child support? Will you need to pay alimony and child support?

Emotions run high when you find out your wife is cheating. It is important to compose yourself and carefully deal with the situation. Our experienced divorce attorneys can help you navigate your divorce tactfully and ensure that you are taken care of and able to start building a new future. Contact the Law Offices of David Knecht to help you with your divorce case.

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3 Characteristics of The Best Divorce Attorneys

What makes the best divorce attorney in Vacaville? When you are searching for the right person to represent you and your rights, it pays to do a little research. At David Knecht Law, we represent your legal rights and focus on ensuring your voice is heard in the court of law. Here are our three recommendations as to what makes a good attorney.

Communication

The MOST important quality of a good divorce attorney is having the ability to communicate with their clients. If you meet your attorney once, and never hear from them again, except when it’s time to pay the bill, you did not choose the right person. You can tell if the attorney will be difficult to deal with based on how they interact with you. If they always cut you off before you finish a sentence, or they do not explain things clearly, move on.

Compassion

Divorce is one of the most difficult things to deal with, and many clients are not emotionally ready to start making challenging, life-altering decisions. No matter how amicable the relationship is between you and your ex, it is important to cover yourself and make sure you are making the right decisions. Your attorney will show empathy for your situation, but they will also be compassionate to you and will help you through this journey. Their job is to focus on helping you navigate through the divorce and they will do so without judgement or disrespect.

During the time you are going through the divorce, your attorney will help you to make informed decisions. Their goal is to ensure you have the right information needed to determine certain choices pertaining to retirement accounts, cars, homes, debt, and more. Make sure you hire someone you know you can trust to protect you during this time!

Availability

Another good characteristic of a divorce attorney is how available they are to their clients. Do they return your phone calls, emails, and text messages? Is it easy for you to get in for an appointment? A good attorney will make their clients a priority, and that shows in how they treat you.

At the Law Offices of David W. Knecht, we are here to protect your legal rights. If you are dealing with a divorce in the Vacaville area, we are here to help. Our legal professionals have extensive experience practicing family law. Let us represent you.

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The Dangers of Social Media in Divorce

Most people understand that posting on social media on divorce can impact the divorce process, and article will discuss what information you need to keep off of social media.

Even posts to friends typically do not stay private.

You may be posting just to a small audience of friends and family and think that the information will stay private. Remember that posts can be shared, saved, forwarded and discussed. When you put information out in the internet, you lose control over how it will be spread.

Pictures and comments can be evidence of bad parenting behavior.

A disparaging or threatening comment can be evidence that is used against you in a divorce trial. Pictures or post indicating excessive drinking or drug use could be detrimental to your case. This applies to any boyfriends or girlfriends that you may be in a relationship with because their behavior can impact custody also if you cohabitate.

Do not post violations of court orders.

Whatever you do, don’t post anything that shows you are violating a court order. If you are not supposed to see you ex, do not post pictures or comments to indicate that you have violated that order. If you have been told by a judge certain parameters about your posts, your kids, your finances, etc., it goes almost without saying that you shouldn’t incriminate yourself by showing that you have disregarded the judge’s order.

Statements on dating aps or elsewhere that are not truthful can impact your case.

Be wary of making any statements on social media that aren’t accurate. For example, if you claim to be single without kids, that may be perceived indicate that you have less interest in parenting. If you make false statements about your ex-spouse, those can potentially get you into even more hot water as they may be perceived as harassing.

Posts that put your mental health in question can have an impact.

It is not uncommon when going through a divorce to be depressed, anxious and angry and perhaps even to have an occasional suicidal or even violent thought. Be careful about posting these feelings. Although it is natural to have strong emotions during this time, posting about those feeling publicly will not help your case. See a therapist or an in person conversation with a close friend or family member.

Watch out for posting information about money.

Finances are a key part of a divorce, so be careful about what you post when it comes to money. Be cautious about posting about vacations, expensive entertainment, food or purchases. Be aware that anything you post on a site such as LinkedIn or Facebook about your income, promotions, bonuses, etc. will be in the public domain and could impeach you if that doesn’t match up with the information you have presented in court. Be aware that anything you post about your earning capacity is important as well.

It isn’t easy to watch your posts and pictures on social media, but the divorce process will only be for a limited time. By being aware of the pitfalls discussed in this article, you can avoid negatively impacting your case by inadvertently social media disclosures.

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