California Divorce: Lessons from Hollywood

A recent Hollywood divorce, Kevin Costner’s divorce from Christine Baumgartner, is an interesting case study of issues that can arise in a California divorce. This article will provide divorce takeaways, supported by a summary some of the interesting facets of this high-profile divorce with facts sourced from news reported by usmagazine.com

If you were blindsided by a divorce, you are in good company with Kevin Costner.

  • Costner and Baumgartner were married for over 19 years when she filed for divorce. 
  • A few months prior to the divorce filing, Costner posted his regrets for having to miss the 2023 Golden Globes and stated that his wife had a beautiful dress and he was looking forward to walking down the read carpet with her.  
  • An anonymous source cited by US said that Costner was “deeply saddened” and was “blindsided by the split.”

A prenuptial agreement may not keep you out of court. 

  • Costner and Baumgartner reportedly had a prenuptial agreement, but this did not prent a court battle over where Baumgartner would live and personal possessions. 
  • Costner alleged in June 2023 court documents that in spite of a prenuptial agreement requiring her to move out within 30 days of filing for divorce, Baumgartner was refusing to move out of the marital home. 
  • The court subsequently ordered Baumgartner to vacate the marital home. 

It is not uncommon for a spouse to withdraw assets just prior to a divorce. 

  • Usmagazine.com cited court documents where Costner claimed that his estranged wife withdrew from his bank account and charged to his credit card a total of $95,000 for her divorce attorneys and accountant. 

One spouse may be more impacted financially by divorce than the other. 

  • Baumgartner claimed in June 2023 court documents cited by Us that she has no personal income and argued that she should not be ordered to leave the family home because she does not have enough money to ensure the children can maintain similar standards of living in the parties’ respective homes. 

One or both parties may be petty during the divorce process. 

  • According to Usmagazine.com, Baumgartner filed court docs in July 2023 claiming that Costner was worries she was going to take too many pots and pans when she moved out. 
  • The magazine also reported that Baumgartner alleged that Costner was kicking his children out of the home and was not willing to commit to paying an appropriate amount of child support.
  • As per Usmagazine.com, Costner reportedly denied he was kicking is children out of their home and claimed to be requesting the Christine vacate the separate property home and find alternative living arrangements.   

Contact an Experienced California Divorce Attorney

If some of these challenging circumstances from Hollywood divorce feel familiar to you as you contemplate or continue the divorce process, you are not alone. If Kevin Costner and Christine Baumgartner are emotionally and financially challenged by the divorce process, then it isn’t surprising that most other people have struggles with divorce. At the Law Office of David Knecht, we are here to help you! We understand the emotional and financial challenges that you will face, and we will use our extensive experience with family law to help support you and walk you through the legal challenges. Contact us today at 707-451-4502. 



Divorce Mediation Success Rate

According to a recent article published by mediate.com, divorce mediation has an 80% success rate for resolving divorces amicably. Many California couples find that they can use divorce mediation to end the marriage more amicably and faster than battling through the litigation process. This article explores the purpose and benefits of mediation as well as the factors influencing the success of mediation with information sourced from mediate.com.  

The purpose of mediation. 

  • Mediation is voluntary. 
  • Mediation encourages open communication and compromise.
  • The mediator is a neutral third party whose goal is to facilitate a resolution that is acceptable to both parties. 
  • The mediator can give parties unbiased opinions about the strengths and weaknesses of their legal arguments. 
  • The mediator is typically very experienced and can suggest various options to questions involving custody and/or property division.

 Factors influencing success of mediation. 

  • The presence of a neutral mediator balances power and facilitates productive discussions. 
  • The voluntary nature of mediation encourages commitment to finding solutions that work for both parties.
  • The flexibility of mediation allows couples to address concerns and options that are unique to their family and circumstances, which would be more customized than the solutions a court would generally impose. 

 

 Benefits of mediation. 

  • Cost-effectiveness.
  • Speed.
  • A healthier, more constructive transition to post-divorce life.
  • Promotes amicable resolutions, which can help reduce the stress and anxiety of children caught in the divorce process. 
  • Creativity in solution finding is much easier through mediation.

Contact an Experienced Divorce Attorney

The statistics show that mediation can be an effective tool for divorcing couples, and having a knowledgeable and experienced attorney by your side during the mediation process can further facilitate the success of the process.  At the Law Office of David Knecht, we have extensive experience with divorce all other family law matters. Contact us at 707-451-4502. 



Estate Planning For Parents with Care-giver Children

According to an article published by allabouttheelderly.com, approximately 17% of adult children provide care for an elderly parent at some point in their lives. The article further projects that by 2060, the population of people over 65 in the United States will have doubled

With these statistics in mind, you may want to consider in your estate planning the possibility of an adult child being your caregiver in the future, the ramifications of the possibility for your asset distribution, and the ways you can plan ahead to promote family harmony in various future scenarios. This article will explore a few of the questions that you can consider with ideas drawn from an article published on yahoo.com.

Preparing for the possibility that an adult child would be caring for a parent in the parent’s home. 

  • How long after death does the child have the right to live in the home?
  • Do you want to give the child a greater share of the assets after you die to compensate the child for their extra effort in your care?
  • Does your estate plan empower the child you plan to care for you to make decisions on your behalf?
  • What protections are in place to protect the adult child from fatigue, which in some cases can lead to elder abuse?

If the child or children are unwilling or unable to care for the parent. 

  • If you are planning on care from family members in the future, do you have a back-up plan in case they are unable or unwilling to care for you?
  • Is there a care facility or nursing home that you prefer that you want to designate as the care facility for when you are incapable of making decisions for yourself?

 Communicating estate planning to your family members. 

  • Communicating with family members about your and their preferences for the future can be as important as setting up the documents because you can get the support of family members in advance and resolve concerns or arguments while you are alive and well.
  • There are many tools available for estate planning and talking through the various choices with your family members can help you choose the right tools for your specific situation.

Contact an Experienced Estate Planning Attorney

The uncertainty of the future can invoke anxiety and fear, but estate planning can help give you peace of mind. When you create the right plan for you and your loved ones, then you can have the confidence to know that you are prepared for all possibilities. At the Law Office of David Knecht, we have extensive with estate planning and enjoy helping people gain the peace and confidence that comes from a properly drafted and personally customized estate plan. Please contact us at 707-451-4502. 

Tips for a Successful California Divorce Mediation

Abraham Lincoln’s famously advised: “A good settlement is better than a good lawsuit.” 

If you are anticipating divorce mediation, you are likely in agreement with Abraham Lincoln and want a good settlement, but you may be wondering how to make it effective and successful. This article will explore tips for a successful California divorce mediation with ideas summarized from an article published at ADRTimes.com

Build a deal, not a battle. 

  • In a fight, the goal is to win. In a mediation, the goal is resolution.
  • Your focus in mediation is to find solutions that benefit both parties. 
  • Try to see the other party’s point of view to open your mind to options that are good for everyone.

Focus on interests. 

  • An interest is a “want,” and a “position” is one way to satisfy a want. 
  • Focus on an interest, not a position. 
  • For example, both parties will likely have an interest in substantial and meaningful time with the children, but a position might be something like a specific parent time plan. 
  • Thinking outside the box of a specific plan with the goal of promoting the position of both parents needing time with their children will help everyone think outside the box and perhaps find a creative solution. 

 Be a patient problem solver. 

  • Many of the best ideas come later in the process. 
  • Initially, brainstorming as a problem solver where no idea is rejected or criticized is a way to build toward better ideas.
  • After many options have been identified, then the parties can evaluate them.

Work past the anger. 

  • At some point in the process, you will realize that you will not be getting everything you want and so will the other party. 
  • This is normal. A compromise is by its very nature not a win on all fronts. 
  • Some parties when their anger or frustration begins to rise want to cancel the mediation, but when both parties have reached this stage, it is often a sign that a compromise is close.

Be patient. 

  • Mediation involves change. 
  • It takes time for each side to understand or respect the interest of the other party. 
  • Often one or both parties come into the mediation with unrealistic expectations. 
  • Be patient to allow time for these changes to occur. 
  • Be willing to end the mediation without a final resolution but with an agreement to think through some of the ideas and work toward solutions in the future. 

Contact an Experienced California Divorce Attorney

You need an attorney to represent you who is confident in the mediation side of the divorce process as well as the litigation side so that you can reap the maximum benefit from every aspect of a divorce that is successful for you and your children. At the Law Office of David Knecht, we have extensive with divorce litigation and divorce mediation and we take pride in representing our clients with experience. We understand that divorce can be very challenging, and we are eager to help you feel confident as you navigate this difficult change in your life. Please contact us at 707-451-4502. 



Name Change After Divorce in California

According to a 2022 CNN article, about 80% of women in the U.S. change their surname when they get married and a small percentage of men change their name with marriage

If you are getting divorced in California, you may also be considering changing your name. Some people want a name change to mark a new identity and others may want to return to a name that was better known professionally or socially. This article will summarize the various processes for name change in California, with information sourced from the California courts self-help resources.

Changing your name back to a former legal name during a California divorce. 

  • There are two different forms to use, depending on whether you are changing your name when you finish your divorce or after your divorce.
  • The forms are FL-395 or FL-180. 

 If you want to change your name to something completely new. 

  • If you want to create a new name, then the process and forms are different than the ones used for divorce. 
  • You would use a petition for change of name. NC-100

 Steps to complete after your name is changed. 

  • Complete an Application for a Social Security Card with the Social Security Administration.
  • Contact the California Division of Motor Vehicles.
  • Contact the California Department of Health to obtain a new birth certificate with your amended name. 

Contact an Experienced Divorce Attorney

Changing your name can be a positive step for some people in starting a new life after the divorce. At the Law Office of David Knecht, we have extensive experience with all matters related to divorce and can assist you in changing your name and following through on the steps to complete after the name change is accomplished. For help with divorce and all other family law matters, please contact us at 707-451-4502. 

How to Survive Living Together During the Divorce

Many couples remain living in the same home during the divorce process, and it is very challenging. This article will summarize best practices suggested by a website devoted to providing support and solutions for thriving beyond divorce, with the source here: https://sasforwomen.com/women-share-how-to-survive-living-together-during-divorce/.

Talk with your children. 

  • It is important for both you and your spouse to explain what is happening and to reassure children that although things are changing, you both love them and are committed to making sure that they are supported and cared for. 

 Take the roommate approach and establish boundaries.

  • Discuss how your home will be divided so that each person has privacy. 
  • Get your own room.
  • Respect boundaries and demand respect for yours. 

 Create a parenting schedule. 

  • Even though you are all under one roof, you are now coparents and need to determine what the parenting schedule is and stick to it. 

Embrace a new normal. 

  • Living together gives you and the children the opportunity to adjust slowly to a new normal. You can model for your children resilience to change and adaptability that may help them adjust positively to their new normal. 

 Practice self-care. 

  • Your physical, emotional, social and professional well-being are paramount for you to navigate the divorce process and be a leader to help your children successfully navigate their new normal also. Do not be afraid to focus on yourself and do what you need to do, whether that be therapy, exercise, relaxation, etc. to take care of your own well-being.

Contact an Experienced Divorce Attorney

The divorce process can be challenging, but finding great legal counsel you can trust can help reduce the stress.  At the Law Office of David Knecht, we have extensive experience with divorce all other family law matters. Contact us at 707-451-4502. 

How the Rich Save Big on Estate Taxes

A recent article published on Yahoo Finance discusses some of the techniques wealthy families use to save on estate taxes

For most Americans, the tactics of the ultra-wealthy are not needed, but many find it fascinating to examine some of the techniques used by top0notch accountants and lawyers to save help rich clients save big on estate taxes. 

 

Using trusts to give away homes and country houses.

 

  • Qualified personal residence trusts (QPRTs) freeze the value of the real estate property for tax. 
  • Homeowner puts the property in trust. 
  • When the trust ends, it is transferred out of the taxable estate and the estate only has to pay gift tax on the value of the property when the trust was formed. 

Passing wealth to future generations with trusts that last up to 1000 years. 

  • The laws on these so called dynasty trusts vary by state, but the idea is that the heirs don’t own the assets, but they have the right to use them and receive income from them. 
  • This plan can allow the passing of wealth through trusts with a long lasting term.

 

Charitable remainder trusts. 

 

  • The person puts their assets in trust and collects annual payments for as long as they live, and only 10% of what remains in the charitable remainder trust has to go to a designated charity. 
  • The trust can be funded with a variety of assets from yachts to businesses, making them useful for entrepreneurs looking to help the world and benefit for themselves. 

Buying off-shore life insurance policies. 

 

  • Private-placement life insurance is used ot pass on assets without incurring estate tax. 
  • The trust owns the life insurance policy that is created off-shore.  
  • This one is primarily for the ultra wealthy, as the premiums are often 5 million up front.  

Transferring assets when the market is down

  • Grantor-retained annuity trusts can facilitate big savings when the market is down. 
  • They pay a fixed annuity, so a certain amount during a term such as two years, and appreciation of the asset’s value is not subject to estate tax. 

Contact an Experienced Estate Planning Attorney

Most of us are not ultra rich, so the techniques they use may not be applicable to you, but there are many tools available to facilitate successful estate planning even for the average American. At the Law Office of David Knecht, we have extensive experience with estate planning and create a customized plan with you to make sure that your loved ones are taken care of and your wishes are memorialized. Contact us at 707-451-4502.

4 Vital Questions in Estate Planning

This article summarizes highlights from a publication at TheStreet.com which discusses the four key questions in estate planning

According to a recent survey, although 87% of parents plan to leave an inheritance, only 37% reported an actual plan to do so.  For some, thinking about their demise is uncomfortable and for others, discussing an estate plan may create or reopen family disputes. 

Do I even need an estate plan?

  • That same survey found that one in five respondents admitted to arguing over an inheritance. 
  • Failing to plan for your assets, your healthcare if you are incapacitated and your end of life preferences can lead to confusion, results not in accordance with your desires, and unnecessary court costs. 
  • You estate could potentially be eroded by the unintended and unanticipated costs that result from not having an estate plan or not keeping it updated. 

What assets will I transfer?

  • You want to avoid any assets becoming unclaimed property.
  • One of the first steps is to have a plan that lays out what assets you will give and account details. 
  • Keep your asset list in a secure and obvious place. 

When should I transfer assets?

  • You can transfer assets while you are alive or after you have passed.
  • As you consider the question of when to transfer, you need to consider all the tax implications and also weigh your own need for the assets during your lifetime. 

 How can I communicate my plan to my family?

  • Open communication with your family members can help you better plan because you can get an idea of their financial needs and wants. 
  • The potential tax consequences of wealth transfer can also be important to discuss with family members.
  • If you plan to leave a business to family members, it may be wise to help teach and train them about the business during your lifetime.  

Contact an Experienced Estate Planning Attorney

The famous phrase, “failing to plan is planning to fail” is an axiom of estate planning and finding the right advisors to assist you is key. At the Law Office of David Knecht, we have extensive experience with estate planning. We can create a customized plan with you, or if you already have an estate plan, we can help you ensure that it is updated and accurate. Contact us at 707-451-4502. 

Settlement Announced: The Final Chapter in the Lisa Marie Presley Estate Dispute?

In a series of articles, we have been following the news related to the Lisa Marie Presley Estate dispute. This case has general interest to many in the public because of the fame of Priscilla Presley and her granddaughter, Riley Keough, who recently starred in the hit Amazon series Daisy and the Six. For the team here at the Law Office of David Knecht, the case is interesting for ourselves and our clients to follow since it involves an estate planning dispute, with interesting takeaways about the importance of keeping an estate plan updated and making sure it is accurate. 

The latest news, which is sources from CNN, is that a settlement has been reached between Priscilla and her granddaughter. Ronson J Shamoun reported in a court hearing in Los Angeles before Judge Lynn Scaduto, “The parties would like to report that they’ve reached a settlement.” 

What was the estate dispute about?

  • The dispute centered around the Promenade Trust, which named Riley Keough, Lisa Marie Presley’s oldest daughter as the beneficiary of her mother’s estate. 
  • Lisa Marie Presley, Elvis Presley’s only child, died after being hospitalized following an apparent cardiac arrest. 

What were the terms of the settlement between Priscilla Presley and Riley Keough. 

  • The terms of the settlement agreement are not public at this time. 
  • The judge asked for the settlement and the motion for seal (which would prevent public access to the settlement) to be filed by June 12 and set another hearing for the case in August. 
  • Shamoun, Priscilla Presley’s attorney, told reporters that all parties were happy and the family in now unified and excited for the future.

What was the problem with the estate plan?

  • Lisa Marie Presley’s will contained a 2016 amendment that removed her mother and former business manager as former trustees. 
  • Priscilla’s petition to the court identified problems with the amendment: she did not receive the amendment while Lisa was alive, which the Trust required, and her name was misspelled. The amendment was not witnessed or notarized and the authenticity of the signature was in question.

 What are some of the estate planning lessons for everyone that can be gleaned from this high-profile case? 

  • Make sure you prioritize getting your estate plan complete and updated because you never know when your time will come. 
  • Follow all of the rules and procedures properly to provide notice, have correct signatures, have proper notarization if required, etc. 
  • Communicate changes to family members in advance so that if there are questions or concerns, they can be addressed while you are still alive. 

Contact an Experienced Estate Planning Attorney

Benjamin Franklin is said to have coined the well-known phrase: “Nothing is certain but death and taxes.” The challenges faced by the rich and famous can be a lesson to all of us that our time may come sooner than we think and planning ahead for the sake of the peace in your family is vital. At the Law Office of David Knecht, we have extensive experience with estate planning. We will listen to you to create a customized estate plan for your family, or if you already have an estate plan, we can help you ensure that it is updated and accurate. Contact us at 707-451-4502. 

What is an AB Trust?

This article will provide basic information about an AB Trust, also called a bypass trust or a credit shelter trust with information summarized from Investopedia.com.

What is an AB Trust?

An AB trust is a joint trust for a married couple that is created for the purpose of minimizing estate taxes. It is formed with each spouse putting assets into the trust and naming as the final beneficiary any person except the other spouse. The name AB comes from the action that splits one trust into two separate entities when one spouse dies such that Trust A is the survivor’s trust and trust B is the decedent’s trust.

Why were AB Trusts previously ubiquitous but more recently they are no longer widely used?

While A-B trusts are a great way to minimize estate taxes, they are not used much today because of changes to the tax code. Now each individual has a combined lifetime federal gift tax and estate tax exemption was $12.06 million in 2022, and has risen to $12.92 million in 2023

What might be better for you than an AB Trust?

According to nolo.com,  for most people, a simple probate-avoidance trust is better than an AB trust, which can be more complex. A simple revocable trust is not designed to continue past the death of a spouse. Rather, the trust assets are quickly distributed to the people who inherit them. This avoids probate proceedings, saving money and hassle, and because the trust does not stay in existence for years, no trust tax returns are necessary

Contact an Experienced Estate Planning Firm

Estate planning can seem overwhelming or confusing to some people, which may result in a person delaying getting a plan in place. For estate planning made easy, contact us at the Law Office of David Knecht.  We have extensive experience with estate planning tools and can help you create the right plan for you and your loved ones. Contact us at 707-451-4502.